Systems Thinking for the Rest of Us
The world runs on systems.
Most people never learn how.
This site is for men in the middle of life who sense that something is off — about how information flows, how influence works, how decisions get made around them and for them — but can't quite put their finger on it.
No jargon. No academic gatekeeping. No self-help platitudes. Just clear thinking about networks, feedback loops, mental models, and the invisible structures that shape everything from your career to your marriage.
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What Are Social Networks?
Start HereNot Facebook. The actual invisible structures that run your life. Systems thinking 101 for people who skipped the textbook.
How Networks Shape You
InfluenceFilter bubbles, algorithmic nudges, and the slow erosion of independent thought. How to notice when you're being steered.
Your Network Is Your Net Worth
RelationshipsWeak ties, strong ties, and why the guy you barely talk to might matter more than your best friend. Relationship physics.
Breaking Out of Loops
PatternsFeedback loops aren't just in software. They're in your marriage, your career, and your health. Here's how to see them.
The Map Is Not the Territory
Mental ModelsYour mental models are useful lies. Some are more useful than others. Learning to think about thinking.
You Are Not Your Class
IdentityWhat object-oriented programming reveals about labels, identity, and how networks form around the boxes we put people in.
Signal and Noise
InformationYou're not uninformed. You're overinformed. How to find what matters in a world engineered to waste your attention.
Who This Is For
You're not dumb. You've built a career, raised kids, navigated decades of life. But somewhere along the way you started noticing patterns you couldn't explain.
Why do the same arguments keep happening in your marriage? Why does your industry keep making the same mistakes? Why does scrolling the news feel like being on a treadmill that someone else controls?
The answer isn't willpower or positive thinking. It's systems — feedback loops, network effects, emergent behavior. Stuff that sounds academic but is actually the most practical knowledge you'll ever encounter.
This site translates those ideas into language that doesn't require a PhD. Because understanding how systems work is the closest thing to a cheat code that real life offers.